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Are you a California voter?

3 years ago, we had a commitment ceremony. It was presided over by a minister. 3 months ago we got married. It was provided over by a minister. California Proposition 8 isn't about religious rights. This is about denying religious rights.

You can't save marriage by destroying marriages.

A vote for California Proposition 8 is a vote to destroy my marriage.

A vote for California Proposition 8 is a vote to destroy my family's life.

A vote for California Proposition 8 is a vote to destroy my friends' lives.

A vote for California Proposition 8 is a vote to ruin the lives of ordinary Californians.

And I'm going to take it personally.

What? You don't vote? It's too hard? It's too inconvenient?

I'm going to take that personally too. An abstention might as well be a vote in favor. Get your sorry ass registered and out to the polls. Read up on the other propositions too. Read up on the candidates for office. Do your fucking civil duty.


Oct. 15th, 2008 02:39 pm (UTC)

Please go back and read what I actually wrote. At no point did I say that anything short of full legal recognition of same sex marriage was the desired _end_ goal of the process. At no point did I say that anything less than that was acceptable as the equivalent to marriage.

I did state that gaining legal recognition of domestic partnerships was an essential first step in the process. And no, such a recognition would hardly be a "baby" step.

As to the religious objections, FAS you are dismissing those a bit to blithely. Marriage, as currently set up in this country, is and is perceived as being, both a secular and sectarian thing. For a large number of Americans they are viewing this demand of recognition as nothing less than the state curtailing their religious freedoms. Freedoms guaranteed in the Constitution.

The US has had a long history of seeing the sectarian bend to the secular when it comes to governance and the maintenance of the social compact that holds the nation together. This has worked primarily due to that bending taking place almost entirely in the secular arena. Marriage is one of those points where both the secular and sectarian arenas overlap. Thus, the state dictating changes in marriage is the state dictating changes in religion. And that cuts right to the core beliefs of millions of Americans. It also cuts to the core of how this country was set up.

To those millions of Americans this is indeed a separation of church and state issue - with the state violating that separation.

Dismissing that, as lightly as readily and sneeringly, as you just have is something which drives away potential supporters of gay marriage and polarizes the debate thereby making it harder to achieve our goals.

To many in the gay community have also taken this tact and it's one reason there is so much opposition even to the idea of gay marriage. As I've posted previously, the majority of folks opposing gay marriage are not "ChristoFascist," knuckle dragging, hate speaking bigots.

Instead, they have some very legitimate objections that should be addressed rationally. And instead of going off as to how _wrong_ they are we should be concentrating on how _right_ we are in calling for legal recognition of gay relationships as simply being an equal treatment issue.


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